parivar di madad layi
pyaar kive zahar kariye?
jidda-jidda saal beetde jande han, udda-udda kujh viahe jode ik-dooje layi ghatt pyaar zahar karde han. je tuhadi viahuta zindagi vich is tarha ho reha hai, taa tuhanu kee karna chaheeda hai?
tuhanu kee pata hona chaheeda?
mazboot viahuta bandhan layi pyaar zahar karna zaroori hai. jis tarha sareerak pakho tandrust rehen layi bakaida khana-peena zaroori hai, ose tarha viahuta bandhan mazboot rakhan layi lagatar pyaar dikhauna zaroori hai. viah to kayi saala baad vi pati-patni nu ik-dooje nu ehsas karauna chaheeda hai ki oh apne saathi nu pyaar karde atey os di parvah karde han.
sacha pyaar suaarthi nahi hunda. eh pyaar dooje viakti di khushi chahunda hai. is layi sirf odo hi pyaar zahar na karo jado tusi chahunde ho, sago ik parvah karan vala saathi apne saathi di pyaar di lorr nu samjhega atey os lorr nu poori karega.
aam taur ’te patiya nalo ziada patniya chahundiya han ki ohna nu pyaar zahar keeta jave. ik pati shayad apni patni nu behadd pyaar karda hove. par je oh sirf apne pyaar da izhar savere ja raat nu ja sareerak sambandh banaun to pehla karda hai, taa os di patni shayad soche ki pati sach-much os di parvah karda vi hai ja nahi. is layi vadiya hovega ki pati-patni aksar apna pyaar zahar karan.
tusi kee kar sakde ho?
apne shabda raahi pyaar dikhao. “i love you” ja “tu mere layi bahut anmol hai” varge shabd keh ke tusi dikha sakde ho ki tuhada saathi tuhade layi bahut maene rakhda hai.
bible da asool: “jo mann vich hunda hai, ohi muh ’te aaunda hai.”—matti 12:34.
sujhaa: tusi sirf bol ke hi nahi, sago likh ke vi apne pyaar da izhar kar sakde ho, jive card, email ja message.
apne kamma raahi pyaar dikhao. jaffi pa ke ja hath farr ke vi tusi dikha sakde ho ki tusi os nu pyaar karde ho. chhoh ke, pyaar naal dekh ke ja kadi-kadayi tohfe de ke vi sachi parvah dikhayi ja sakdi hai. nale apni patni layi kujh kamm kar ke vi tusi idda kar sakde ho, jive tusi samaan naal bhare lifafe chukk sakde ho, darvaza khol sakde ho, bhande dho sakde ho, kappde dho sakde ho ja khana banaa sakde ho. bahut sariya patniya manndiya han ki tusi eh kamm kar ke sirf ohna di madad hi nahi karde, sago apne kamma raahi ohna nu apna pyaar vi dikhaunde ho.
bible da asool: “aao aapa galli-bati ja zabaani hi nahi, sago dilo kujh kar ke apne pyaar da saboot deyiye.”—1 yuhanna 3:18.
sujhaa: apne saathi naal ose tarha pyaar naal pesh aao jidda tusi viah to pehla diya mulakata dauran pesh aaunde si.
ik-dooje naal sama bitao. ikatthe sama bitaun naal viahuta bandhan mazboot hunda hai atey tuhade saathi nu yakeen hunda hai ki tusi os de saath da anand maande ho. bina shakk, bache hon karke ja har roz de kamma vich rujhe hon karke ikatthe sama bitauna aukha ho sakda hai. tusi dono jane kujh ajeha kar sakde ho jis naal tusi ikatthe sama bita sako, jive tusi dove jane sair ’te ja sakde ho.
bible da asool: “tusi ziada zaroori galla nu dhyaan vich rakho.”—filippiya 1:10.
sujhaa: kujh jode jehrre kamma-kara vich rujhe hunde han, oh bakaida ikatthe sama bitaun layi alag sama rakhde han, jive oh shaam nu ja shani-aetvaar nu ikatthe kite bahar jande han.
apne saathi nu jaano. har viakti di pyaar paaun di lorr vakhri hundi hai. ikatthe baith ke gall karo ki tusi kidda chahunde ho ki tuhada saathi apne pyaar da izhar kare atey kee tuhanu ik-dooje nu hor pyaar dikhaun di lorr hai. fir apne saathi di lorr poori karan di poori koshish karo. yaad rakho ki mazboot viahuta bandhan layi pyaar zahar karna zaroori hai.
bible da asool: “pyaar . . . apne bare hi nahi sochda.”—1 kurinthiya 13:4, 5.
sujhaa: dhakke naal pyaar lain di bajaye apne aap to puchho, ‘mai kee kar sakda ha ki mera saathi mainu hor pyaar kare?’